Choosing a first dance song for your wedding
Planning your big day and stuck on what to choose for your first dance? Don’t stress! You can’t go wrong with a classic that gets everyone smiling.
Sure, some couples already have that song – the one that was playing when they first met, had their first date, or said I love you for the first time. But if you haven’t got one, don’t stress! Sometimes, all you need is a belter of a tune that sets the right mood. And after your wedding, it’ll always be your song.
There are loads of great first dance songs out there, so think about what suits you as a couple. Do you want a slow and romantic moment, or something upbeat to kick off the party? If you can’t decide, why not go for a song that starts off mellow and builds up to a fun, lively finish?
Also, if you’re booking a wedding band, have a think about how your chosen tune will sound live. Some songs – especially those packed with electronic effects – can be tricky for a live band to pull off exactly as they sound on record. If you’ve got your heart set on one of those, chat with your band about how they can adapt it or consider playing the original track through their sound system.
And don’t forget about song length! A full five-minute ballad might sound lovely, but a shorter version can keep things fresh and avoid any awkward shuffling. Most bands are happy to tweak things for you, so just ask!
Think about how your first dance will transition into the rest of the evening. Choosing a song that naturally leads into an upbeat number can keep the energy flowing and encourage guests to join you on the dancefloor. Planning this progression can enhance the overall atmosphere of your reception.
If you’re keen to make your first dance a standout moment, consider choreographing a routine. Whether it’s a simple sway or a full-on dance number, practicing beforehand can boost your confidence and make the experience more enjoyable. Some couples even take dance lessons to perfect their moves and add a touch of flair to their performance.
Lastly, consider the size and placement of your dancefloor. A spacious, centrally located dancefloor encourages guests to join in after your first dance, creating a lively atmosphere. Ensure there’s adequate space for your moves and that the area is free from obstructions
To give you some first dance ideas, here are a few of the most requested first dance songs from real couples so far this year, courtesy of wedding music booking agency Function Central:
- At Last – Etta James
- Can’t Help Falling in Love – Elvis Presley
- Lover – Taylor Swift
- Let’s Stay Together – Al Green
- Baby I’m Yours – Arctic Monkeys
- Stand By Me – Ben E King
- This Will Be (An Everlasting Love) – Natalie Cole
- Your Song – Elton John
- All Of Me – John Legend
- I Won’t Give Up – Jason Mraz
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